I mean zero shade to little-known character actors Brad Pitt and George Clooney, but I have to say: Austin Abrams has the best scene in their new film, Wolfs. The action-comedy, which debuts on Apple TV+ 27 September, stars Pitt and Clooney as duelling fixers who are hired to clean up the same mess. Of course, shit goes sideways, thanks to Abrams’s drug-slinging college kid with a heart of gold.

Anyway, back to the scene: Pitt’s and Clooney’s characters interrogate the poor kid in a shitty, jungle-themed motel room—and it seems like he won’t break!—until he does. Abrams promptly delivers a frantic, breathless, can’t-look-away monologue that tells the entire storey of his character, right in the face of two Mount Rushmore–level thespians. I’m still thinking about it.

When I Zoom with Abrams—who also stars on Euphoria as the kindhearted, surely Broadway-bound Ethan—I inform him of this fact. He’s clearly uncomfortable with stealing any sort of praise from Mr. Pitt and Mr. Clooney, so I ask what it was like to spend his 28th birthday at the Venice Film Festival’s Wolfs screening.

“So the movie played late—we got done after midnight, which was my birthday,” he says. “We were up on a roof, and Brad started singing ‘Happy Birthday.’ And then everyone’s singing ‘Happy Birthday.’ Then we went to this after-party, where they brought out a cake and did it again. It was a super-sweet, really surreal experience.”

For the Florida native, it’s one of those birthdays that give you plenty to think about, like where he’s been and where he’s going. In his twenties, he has played everything from a charming Netflix rom-com hero (Dash & Lily) to an abusive boyfriend (This Is Us) to, yes, one of the only sane humans in a school full of batshit California kids (Euphoria).

Now his roles are coming nearly tailor-made for his talents. If you watched Abrams crush “Holding Out for a Hero”—a jaw-dropping but damn funny physical performance—on Euphoria and wanted more, Wolfs is for you. The film sees him darting around Manhattan in his tighty-whities while somehow holding his ground against Clooney and Pitt. At times, his performance is hilarious, tragic, and hilariously tragic.

Today, though, we’re still thinking about birthdays. Mine is a couple weeks after Abrams’, so he wants to know if I’m the kind of guy who dies a little inside when anyone sings “Happy Birthday” to me. The answer is yes—who doesn’t?!—so he gives me some guidance. “Really try to not hide,” he says. “Focus on your chest and try to just feel what’s happening. It’s just a great opportunity where people are giving you a lot of love. They’re here celebrating you. They love you. They want to celebrate you.”

Below, Abrams offers more sage advice and talks about acting alongside Clooney and Pitt, what he knows about Euphoria season 3, and his involvement in director Zach Cregger’s secretive Barbarian follow-up, Weapons. This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.

AUSTIN ABRAMS: What’s behind you?

ESQUIRE: I’m in Esquire’s archives room.

AA: Does anyone ever go in there and look at anything?

ESQ: Yeah, people love sifting through the old magazines. There’s a lot of funny stuff—I’m looking at a very old book called Things a Man Should Know About Work and Sex.

AA: Oh, hell yeah! Let’s bust that open! Figure it all out.

ESQ: I know everyone’s asking you different versions of What was it like to work with Pitt and Clooney? But I’m curious what you learned specifically from them that you’ll take to your next project.

AA: They’re geniuses at constructing a scene. I went into Wolfs being like, Okay, I really want to learn from these guys. And you do learn a lot—and you learn a lot from osmosis. But also something that I learned is: He’s just Brad Pitt and he’s amazing. And so it’s like, if you want to be like Brad Pitt, you just have to be Brad Pitt.

I wouldn’t say I was surprised, but I was very grateful when it turned out that they were so sweet and welcoming to me. It’s really impressive, because people in their positions, they don’t have to do that. They don’t have to be welcoming. I feel like I’ve heard so many [horror] stories. With these guys, it’s not the case at all.

ESQ: Wolfs is an action-comedy, but if you really peel back the curtain, your character is a pretty complicated guy. He’s this young, lonely, confused kid who’s idolizing these two traditional versions of masculinity. It feels very of the times.

AA: Totally. If you just go off of what he says, he talks about taking some classes at Pace. He’s still living with his dad. You don’t know if there’s a mom in the picture. Yeah, I feel like there is something about the character where he’s looking toward some sort of male role-model figure. You see it with Richard Kind, who plays my dad. There’s Sinatra [memorabilia] in his apartment—even my dad is looking toward other kinds of male figures. It seems like what you see is a lost son and a lost father when it comes to their identity or their masculinity. It seems like what a lot of young men seem to be struggling with.

ESQ: I have to admit: Dash & Lily was probably my favorite pandemic comfort watch. How do we get ten seasons of Emily in Paris and no more Dash?

AA: I’m not really sure what happened, but it’s lovely to hear something like that. It happens more around Christmastime or something. But if someone says something to me like, “I’ve seen that a bunch,” it’s lovely to hear that it brings someone comfort. We all have our things that we watch every year—and to think that something that I’m in is something that people watch every year, it’s a cool thought to be a part of that ritual.

ESQ: Is that what’s fulfilling about this work for you?

AA: It’s different every time—and you don’t know really what you’re going to get. I’m just thinking about the last thing I did. [I appreciate] getting to know a different part of life, or a way people live, more deeply. Doing the work, you get to know this aspect of life that you never would have known before....There are a lot of different things that can be really fulfilling about it. It’s always a nice thought to think about someone watching [my work] and questioning something in their life. That’s why I dig a lot of Shakespeare, because his work asks a lot of questions. He never tells you the answer.

ESQ: Was Weapons the last project you worked on?

AA: Yeah. Zach Cregger is amazing. I mean, the way that he works and writes—his stuff is so deep. All of this stuff feels like there’s a deeper element to it, and it’s why I really love this work. Also, his humor is just amazing, which also sets him apart.

ESQ: What else drew you to Weapons?

AA: It’s one of those scripts that I couldn’t stop reading—I was up way later than I should have been, finishing it. It’s just very exciting. A lot of really, really great actors. Inspired story. Inspired director. And a great, great character. That’s probably the most I can say, but I’m really excited for it.

ESQ: Okay, I have to move to “Holding Out for a Hero” then. I rewatched the scene this morning.

AA: Oh, you did?

ESQ: How many weeks of choreography did it take to pull it off?

AA: I don’t know where [Euphoria creator Sam Levinson] got the idea that I could do that. Maybe he saw something that I didn’t see. But I never really had any particular sort of dancing skills, so it took a while to even get to a place where I was able to do that.

ESQ: I get it. I don’t naturally have rhythm.

AA: Okay, so imagine being you. And being like, Oh, fuck, I have to do this in a couple months. You could do it. You would just have to figure it out how to do that....It was definitely a challenge. It was nerve-racking. When I first read that, I was like, Oh my God. Also, I didn’t know if I was going to have to sing—I just remember in the script it not being completely clear that it was lip-synced. Thankfully, that wasn’t the case, because that would have been insane. But yeah, it was super daunting at first. But I love dance now.

ESQ: It feels like there’s a new report about Euphoria season 3 every month. What has your experience been? Have you been asked to return?

AA: I really have no idea. I mean, because it was being geared up to go—I mean, years ago, I think.

ESQ: There was one story that said the cast was locked in to start production in January.

AA: I think it was supposed to happen, and then the strike happened. Something like that. So I couldn’t tell you. I have absolutely no idea when they’ll do it, if I would be in it or not. I hope they make it, though. I mean, I love Sam. He always feels really inspirational to work with. The show is a very inspiring thing to work on.

ESQ: Do you have any hopes, dreams, or aspirations for Ethan?

AA: I couldn’t tell you. No idea. I wish him well. [Laughs.]

ESQ: What’s next for you?

AA: A dream is just to keep working with great people and great writing. It’s almost like you have to be careful of what you want or what you desire, because it’s just a desire. It’s just a dream. It’s not real yet, you know? As I’ve gotten older, there’s also an understanding of how you actually don’t know what [a dream will feel] like when it happens. It’s not true that you’ll feel the way you think you’re gonna feel in your head, you know?

ESQ: It’s sobering, yeah.

AA: You’ve gotta be careful of fantasies and what you want in life. I mean, life can be an adventure, hopefully....You have to really go moment by moment. You have to know that if that happens, it may not give you the feeling you thought it would.

ESQ: That’s the hard thing about this age—it’s when your childhood dreams collide with whatever’s happened to your older self.

AA: Yeah, all of those thoughts you had when you were younger—then you’re hit with, like, Oh, shit. It’s not like we’re old, necessarily. It’s just that that age that once seemed far off in the distance is now here. People reading this either get it or maybe they’re freaking out by what we’re saying.

ESQ: Anything you wish I had asked you?

AA: Why didn’t you ask me what I eat for breakfast? I’m a little bit pissed off about that. [Laughs.]

Originally published on Esquire US

Desmond Tan is no stranger to covers; they’ve punctuated every chapter of his life. From his early days in the industry, where youthful energy and ambition defined him, to the more seasoned actor we've come to know, each interview has captured the essence of the different stages of his life.

But this one feels different. There’s a sense that he’s stepped into a new phase, one that’s about inner transformation as it is about outward success. He has a daughter now, and with that comes a shift—a deepening, a quiet assurance and a fresh perspective on life that wasn’t there before.

Perhaps it's the 17 years spent in the industry, but the insecurities that once clung to him like shadows in his youth have softened, giving way to self-acceptance. External measures no longer dictate his perception of himself, and he doesn’t seek validation from them either. It takes a certain level of nuanced understanding of oneself and the world to get there, but it makes perfect sense given his favourite film is Wong Kar Wai’s melancholic In The Mood For Love.

This digital cover feels like more than just a feature but a reflection of a man who has embraced his past, matured into his present and is ready to step into the future with newfound clarity. It’s a snapshot in time, one that perhaps, years from now, his daughter will look at and see not just her father, but a man who once grappled with self-doubt, anxiety, and identity, and emerged stronger for it.

ESQUIRE SINGAPORE: You're a father of a newborn. What was your initial reaction when you first held your baby?

DESMOND TAN: At first, I didn’t feel much when I saw her in the labour room—there was so much adrenaline. But once everything settled down, emotions hit me all at once. It was magical. I held her for the first time about six or seven hours after she was born, after all the checks were done. The moment felt surreal; like time stood still. It was just like in the movies, where the camera zooms in from a wide shot of the earth, then to the continent, then to Singapore, and finally into that very room. It was a heartwarming and moving experience, and even now, talking about it gives me goosebumps.

ESQ: How has fatherhood been treating you so far?

DT: I’m loving every moment of it. I haven’t felt frustrated or regretful. Everything’s been smooth, and I feel blessed to have an easy baby. Fatherhood has given me a new perspective on life, made me grow, and changed my priorities for the better. I now focus more on the quality and intrinsic value of things. It’s motivated me to push harder in both life and work, and I believe it’s expanded my emotional range as an actor.

ESQ: What are you currently working on?

DT: I’m working on a production called Devil Behind the Gate, where I play twin brothers. It’s one of the most challenging projects I’ve ever taken on because I have to portray two very different characters with opposite personalities.

Switching from one brother to the other on the same day is challenging, with all the necessary makeup, wardrobe, and character changes. But I enjoy the challenge, even the tough parts because I believe growth comes through deconstruction. This project is helping me build a new foundation for bigger opportunities.

ESQ: You've a daughter; how's it going?

DT: She’s an easy baby—sleeps from 8pm to 8am. But that means I often don’t see her awake. I leave early for work and by the time I get home, she’s asleep. The only time I see her awake is through photos or a baby monitor during my lunch break.

It reminds me of having a Tamagotchi—those virtual pets we had growing up. I turn on my phone, watch her through the camera, and sometimes talk to her through the speaker. At first, she would cry when she heard my voice, but now she recognises it and doesn’t cry anymore. It’s funny when I think about it.

ESQ: What's something you've always dreamt of doing with your child, even before having her?

DT: When I was younger, I imagined having a son to play soccer with, go biking, or camping. But when I had my daughter, everything changed. There are so many things I want to do with her—read books, sing duets, teach her music. The one song I always sing to her is “A Whole New World” and I hope that, one day, we’ll sing it together. It feels like a special bond between us, like the song is our theme.

ESQ: You entered MediaCorp when you were 21. How has the industry changed since then?

DT: The industry has evolved a lot, especially with the rise of streaming platforms. When I first started, people mainly watched TV for entertainment, but now there’s so much competition from productions around the world. We have to adapt to the changing tastes of both local and international audiences.

The way people consume entertainment has changed too—formats have shortened, and social media has become a big part of the industry. I used to see myself strictly as an actor, but now I realize I need to wear multiple hats. Social media helps promote our work, and I’ve come to embrace that.

ESQ: Are you interested in exploring other mediums like international film?

DT: Always. International interactions have opened up new opportunities, and I’m eager to take on international projects. Working on sets with different cultures and experiences always brings out something new in me. It’s exciting, and I’m constantly inspired to grow and explore more. I don’t want to be a wallflower in this industry—I want to leave a legacy, to be a beacon of inspiration for my generation and the next.

ESQ: What is your favourite film of all time?

DT: Definitely In the Mood for Love by Wong Kar Wai. The film captures the beauty of that era in Hong Kong—the costumes, like the iconic cheongsam worn by Maggie Cheung, the silhouette of Tony Leung’s suits, the hair, makeup and music.

I’m particularly drawn to the performances in the film. Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung’s portrayals, the subtlety, and even the silence in the movie speak volumes. The film’s understated emotions hit me more than the loud action of blockbuster movies. For example, the back shot of Maggie Cheung sobbing in the shower is powerful without showing her face. It’s these kinds of cinematic choices that show the power of film.

ESQ: Are you an introvert?

DT: I think I’m a mix, like everyone. We’re all somewhere on that spectrum. Over the years, I’ve become more extroverted, but I still have introverted moments. I get exhausted after being around a lot of people, but I also enjoy sharing things I’m passionate about. I’d say I’m about 80 per cent extroverted, though I’ve never taken the Myers-Briggs test.

ESQ: As a self-proclaimed "Ah Beng," do you ever feel a sense of imposter syndrome at fancy events like fashion week?

DT: I used to think of myself as an "Ah Beng," but I’ve realised I’m more of a heartlander, a local Singapore boy. I often felt out of place at high-society events but over time, I’ve grown comfortable in my own skin. I’ve learned that everyone has doubts, and it’s okay not to know everything. What matters is accepting your weaknesses and being willing to learn and grow, even if it’s just a little each day.

Now, I’m confident in who I am and my background. I don’t see it as imposter syndrome anymore; it’s just part of my journey. I enjoy meeting people at events without feeling the need to prove myself—it's about embracing who you are and owning your story.

ESQ: Do you struggle with small talk?

DT: When I was younger, I did. I felt the need to prove myself, to be recognized, and taken seriously. But as I matured, I realised that doing less is more. When you’re comfortable with yourself, people can sense it, and they’re drawn to you. It’s important to just relax, enjoy life, and share your passions. Over time, I’ve learned that the key is to be comfortable and positive. When you’re relaxed and enjoying yourself, others will want to be around you.

ESQ: When I was doing research for this interview, I came across an interview you had where you talked about how anxiety is one of your biggest fears. Is that true?

DT: My anxiety stemmed from my struggles with language as a child. In this industry, you’re expected to be strong in expressing yourself, which was difficult for me. The pressure of recorded interviews and live shows added to my stress. As a perfectionist, I put extra pressure on myself, which only made things worse.

ESQ: How did you overcome that?

DT: But over the years, I’ve learned to accept who I am—both my strengths and weaknesses. Accepting yourself makes you feel more comfortable and less anxious. You can’t treat anxiety with anxiety, but you can treat it with self-love and love for others.

Being a father has also helped. I’ve read books on parenting that focus on psychology, and I’ve learned that our anxieties as adults often stem from childhood experiences. By revisiting those events, you can unlock and overcome your fears and anxieties.

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Producer: Oh Seoyul
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Kit Connor’s hair looks ever so slightly different each time. It’s not softly side-swept like in his Loewe campaign, nor freshly buzzed short in recent social photos. It’s in a neat length that frames his face well and characteristically bearing a distinct auburn. Which is likely the first thing you’ll notice. We’re catching him merely two weeks into rehearsals for Romeo + Juliet.

The English actor would be tackling the possibly 37th Broadway iteration of the star-crossed lovers’ age-old tale alongside Rachel Zegler. Except that its pop-imbued teaser, shot no different from a music video, previews a score by the trendiest Producer of late. Like Jack Antonoff’s inaugural composition for a live stage, this will mark Connor’s Broadway debut.

It’s his first time working across the pond too, but make no mistake. This is hardly the 20-year-old’s first rodeo. The adaptation of Ingmar Bergman’s Fanny and Alexander at the Old Vic was entered into his CV—at the age of 14. So young that the part had to be shared in fulfilment of British child labour laws. If that amazes you, wait till we get to how old he was when he embarked on this gig.

“It’s early days, and I’m finding the flow, enjoying myself a lot.” The Croydon-raised youth tells of his return to plays, speaking at a mindful and measured pace. He’s starting to get back into the swing of it, and he’s certainly approaching it differently now as an adult. “Every job is a learning curve in its own way. It’s really nice to be in the same room for a few weeks working at it and doing what you love.”

Doing what you love. It’s a phrase that sporadically punctuates his speech. It’s not difficult to see why when you trace his career. Signed up for Stagecoach Performing Arts School by his parents in an effort to pry a fairly introverted kid out of his shell, the attempt paid off in an almost accidental entry into the industry.

“A random opening for an Xbox commercial,” he briefly recounts the what’s-the-harm mindset, “I got it, did it, had a great day and thought, ‘Yeah, I’d do this again’. And it all very naturally progressed from there.”

Natural progression like his first feature (aged nine) and first red-carpet interview (aged 10). Shooting advertisements in South Africa and playing a young Elton John in the biopic. All before taking his GCSE examinations. Quite the makings of a child actor, minus the wayward behaviour, thankfully.

“It’s a brilliant but strange way to grow up. You spend months at a time out of school trying your best to keep up with the tutors, and come back still a little bit behind everyone,” he admits, quick to furnish with how lucky he felt to have been able to gain experiences working opposite incredible actors throughout his childhood.

It’s the reason when posed with the standard question for celebrities, Connor has still yet to find an alternative occupation that would make a good answer. The factors are not particularly stellar in school (with that schedule, can anyone blame him?); plus a keen interest in the arts.

“I would have always gravitated towards the film industry or creative arts in some way.” he muses, before almost mumbling, “I still hope at some point to be a director... when the time is right.”

There was a formative time when a role he was excited to have landed eventually failed to come to fruition due to an executive decision by the studio. Since then, the young thespian does not take things for granted. This rejection-resilient fortitude was further blustered by the pandemic; where the then-student recognised the possibility of never working in this trade again.

Fortunately, that was the season he was chosen for his breakout Netflix role. Funnily enough though, if forced to pick a preferred medium among the three, Connor’s controversial opinion ranks TV as the last. Only because it stems from the love he has for a process and timeline that allows more care dedicated to a project.

One upcoming billing to anticipate is Alex Garland’s Warfare, which also stars Joseph Quinn, Will Poulter, Cosmo Jarvis, Charles Melton and Noah Centineo. Despite wrapping months ago, the two-month job felt like just yesterday to him.

“I really loved Civil War, which came out after I knew I was doing Warfare, so I was really excited to see Alex’s most recent work,” he explains, having enjoyed Ex Machina and Annihilation. “I thought everyone was brilliant in it. It gave a taste of what Warfare could be like.”

The extent of similarity lies in writer and co-director Ray Mendoza as military advisor across both films; and why action sequences come across as authentic as they are terrifying. “It opens your eyes to the horrors of war, and it’s not going to be an easy watch. Incredibly intense, probably uncomfortable. Yeah... it’ll be an experience.”

On the lighter side, there’s The Wild Robot. Connor voices young gosling Brightbill in the animated adaptation of Peter Brown’s illustrated literary series, across Lupita Nyong’o, Pedro Pascal and Bill Nighy (special shoutout to Matt Berry for lending his iconic inflexions).

While he was not necessarily a runt of the litter like the little hatchling, Connor relates growing up somewhat shorter and skinnier than everyone else. Together with what he calls “a massive baby face” that placed him looking years younger than his peers, you instinctively match that with his self-description of an adolescent who was generally rather quiet among strangers.

Before picturing a sensitive child, however, anyone who is or knows an introvert is aware of how loud they can be when they’re comfortable with you. And if anything, he’s the furthest from a crier. “A lot of my friends are,” he says, “So next to them, I look like this sort of heartless man. I do get very moved by things but I rarely cry.”

The last thing he recalls that gave him utter goosebumps was The Motive and The Cue, a meta-production on the production of Shakespeare’s Hamlet during the ’60s. In that realm, the theatre geek also has high regard for other Hamlet partaker Andrew Scott.

“Anything he touches is bound to be a success,” he expresses, citing Present Laughter and Vanya. “There’s such an incredible range in his performance. I wouldn’t say Vanya is designed to be a one-man show and was quite sceptical when it comes to those, so my jaw was on the floor with how he did it. One of the single best feats of acting I’ve seen in a long time.”

Connor occupies a comfortable space where he has the luxury of picking what he truly wants to be a part of. He acknowledges the privilege of turning down offers avails only upon reaching a certain point in one’s career. Not that he’s getting them from all directions, he adds with a reconciling smile. It’s just a little more leeway that’s provided with the support from his parents. “They never made me do things I didn’t want, towards the direction of money or anything. It’s always been how best to help me, which is being there for me and looking out for me. It’s clear that if I didn’t want to be doing it, I wouldn’t. And that’s still the truth today.”

Though the wild card sibling to an older brother and sister outside the entertainment business turns 20 this year, he reveals he hasn’t felt like a teenager for a while now. “I feel like I’ve been 60 since I was nine,” he shares of his regular demeanour, “Many of my Heartstopper friends call me a bit of a dad, and I think I am at times. There are moments the teenage side really comes out, but in most cases maybe as a result of starting work so young, I have felt like a slight old man.”

The statement is consistent with the very diplomatic way he articulates himself; sans slang or any tell-tale giveaway of his actual age. A concise conversation leaves the impression that this is simply a facet of himself that he’s open to impart, and the bigger canvas remains reserved for a passage earned with time. But time is something Connor can afford, and you suspect it would be magic the day he fully steps into his own skin.

Heartstopper Season 3 launches on Netflix on 3 October and The Wild Robot is in cinemas on 26 September in Singapore.

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Wang Congyu began playing the piano at three and is recognised as a complete musician and an exceptionally talented pianist. His early talent earned him a scholarship to the prestigious École Normale de Musique de Paris. Wang is an internationally renowned soloist, acclaimed as a recitalist, accompanist, and chamber musician. During his brief visit to Singapore in May, he spoke with us at a cafe in Dempsey.

ESQUIRE: Have you been travelling a lot?

WANG CONGYU: Yeah pretty much. Travelling from Singapore is easy and practical—you can go to Indonesia in an hour and return at night. If I lived [in Singapore], I’d probably travel every two or three days. However, I live on Réunion Island, where travel is more challenging. There are only two routes: one to Paris—an 11 to 12-hour flight—and the other to Bangkok. Additionally, I signed up with a cruise line this year, where I’ll head to Iceland and play in Antarctica this Christmas. I only signed up because my wife will be accompanying me. I often joke with her about how many people would love to be in her position, getting a free holiday while I’m working. After Christmas, we’ll spend time in Argentina for New Year’s.

ESQ: That’s so romantic. 

WQY: I don’t know about the romance but it’ll be cold. We’re looking forward to seeing some penguins. Initially, the frequent travelling felt surreal. One week I’d be in China, the next in Japan, and then off to France—it was non-stop. They say time flies when you love what you do, and I agree. I can’t imagine myself stuck in an office. I used to teach a lot and own a couple of music schools. This year, I’m opening a new school in Shanghai. While I love teaching, doing it for seven hours a day, every day, can stifle your creative side. It feels like you’re losing half your life to routine.

ESQ: Do you find yourself being less driven because of that?

WQY: You’d only be less driven if you work with people you don’t like. Being driven is about knowing who you are and where you came from. I will never forget all the things I had to go through to get by, so the drive will always be there.

ESQ: Are you looking forward to the Olympics held in Paris?

WQY: I’d rather stay away from it, to be honest. The Olympics project in Paris can be quite disorganised. Normally, when you arrive at CDG (Charles-de-Gaulle Airport), the train to Paris takes about 45 minutes. So, they have Project Olympic Paris, which is to build a train that gets you to the city in 20 minutes.It’s set to finish in 2029 but the Olympics is happening this year. So French right?

ESQ: At least, there’s gonna be a super-fast train at the end of it.

WQY: Yeah, I suppose. But on the downside, Paris faces frequent strikes due to understaffing. In China, they’ve proved that it’s possible to build a hospital in five days, whereas in France, it could probably take five years. There was a scenario where the mayor expressed concerns about insufficient funds and manpower, leading to doubts about the readiness for Project Olympic Paris. When attempts were made to bring in additional workers, it sparked a strike due to a perceived lack of funding.Now, they’re considering shuttle buses instead of trains for the Olympics. Can you imagine the logistics? It seems best to avoid Paris during the Olympics; considering the exorbitant prices of three-star hotels, charging up to €500 a night. I’m always glad to be back home in Singapore

ESQ: So why live on Réunion Island? 

WQY: My wife is from Réunion Island and is the main reason I chose to live there. We met when I was studying in Paris. She was doing an internship and we connected at church as students. We got engaged however, I had to return here to serve national service while she went back home and we eventually got married. But since my career breakthrough with Steinway, I had to travel more than before. However, it’s anything but routine. Travel brings new experiences. You never know what surprises await. Travelling feels like constantly putting out fires, solving new problems daily. You might miss a flight due to a forgotten form to fill in or end up in a strange hotel room with six others. The unpredictability keeps things interesting.

ESQ: Do you have a favourite destination to perform in?

WQY: It depends. Each country offers unique cultural experiences, and even cities within the same country can vary greatly. If I had to choose, I would say my favourite destination to perform in is Italy. [It] seems to check all my boxes: they got history, they got the views, incredible food. You can find anything you desire inItaly, after all, that’s where the piano and the violin were invented.

ESQ: You’ve been playing the piano since you were three. How have you managed to sustain your passion and interest in the piano?

WQY: I think there’s a misconception that all musicians have to start early. While many successful ones do, I started at three but only became truly interested around 12 or 13. This gives me an advantage when it comes to teaching because I understand the difficulties that can make learning annoying and uninteresting. Learning an instrument should come from within, not from external pressures. If your parents are forcing you, or you’re only practising to pass an exam, that’s not passion; it’s just fulfilling obligations. This is becoming more challenging with social media. Kids today can quickly find tutorials on YouTube for any song, but they don’t realise the hours of practice required to master apiece. Learning an instrument isn’t just about the instrument; it’s about understanding your body and how it reacts to the music. Many people get confused about this. There’s also a cultural aspect. In European families, parents might be overly encouraging even if their children are not very talented. Conversely, in Asian families, even if you play well, your parents might think it’s not good enough. It can be frustrating.Even now, when I practice at home, I sometimes feel that my mom is annoyed by my playing. She never attended any of my concerts until recently, and that was only because the Minister of Culture was there and she wanted a photo with him.

ESQ: Have your parents accepted you being a professional pianist?

WQY: Yes, a long time ago. When I came back for National Service, they kinda accepted it. At that time, I believe I was one of the few Singaporeans who dropped out of school to pursue music. Naturally, my parents were against it. For me, the only goal was to survive. Sometimes in life, when you don’t have a choice, it can be the best thing that happens because you either make it or fail. In Singapore, we have so many options and safety nets that it can be easy to lose sight of your dreams. That was my life in secondary school—teachers said I was good at certain things and should pursue them but I wasn’t passionate about any of those paths. First, if I hadn’t made it, I wouldn’t be doing this interview. Second, if my parents had supported me, I might be successful but I wouldn’t be as motivated. That’s why I own music schools, organise festivals and help young people with their music careers. I enjoy those things and it keeps me driven. I could have just opened a school and retired comfortably, but I chose a different path. Most musicians just practise and disregard the public relations aspect. While you can hire someone for admin work, building personal relationships and selling your art is a skill every musician in this era should learn. I was a student practising in a room for 10 hours a day, unknown to anyone. Then I met an agent who taught me how to market myself, and it changed everything.

ESQ: Are things different now compared to the past, especially with the rise of social media?

WQY: For sure, things are very different now. Today, you’ll need to be the first to respond to get the gig. That said, 99 per cent of the time, it’s luck—being in the right place at the right time; meeting the right people. It’s all about probabilities.Now, everything is digital. Interviews can be done over the phone, via video call, or by e-mail. The rise of social media and digital communication has dramatically changed the landscape, making everything faster and more immediate.

ESQ: You mentioned that you went to National Service.

WQY: There isn’t an official vocation for it but when I was in the band during National Service. I was appointed to the SCDF(Singapore Civil Defence Force) and When I was a recruit, they reviewed my profile and saw that I had a degree in music. It was pure luck that I met a guy recruiting musicians for his band and he invited me to audition, even though I told him I don’t sing. He assured me it was fine, so I auditioned and got in. For the rest of my NS life, I just played the piano.

ESQ: What was that like?

WQY: As a classical musician, I had never really dabbled in pop-music. When you’re part of the band, I had to improvise and play with others, which meant practising different genres. They offered incentives: if I play a certain song, I could get a day off. If I rehearsed a piece and the commissioners were pleased, I get two days off. By the end, I had accumulated about 70 days off.

ESQ: Do you feel less nervous in front of an audience? 

WQY: I still get nervous when there’s a high chance of messing up or when I don’t feel ready. There’s always a professional conscience reminding me if I’m not adequately prepared.

ESQ: Any rituals before you go on stage?

WQY: Yeah, I like to eat pasta before a concert. It brings back memories. I ate pasta when I was really poor. Pasta with cheese brings me back to simplicity. Eating carbs before a concert gives me energy, makes me feel good, and gives me a sense of control. Now that I consider myself successful, I’m still eating pasta. The dish always played a big role in my life, especially during important moments. Whenever I win a competition and it’s late at night with everything closed, pasta is usually the only option.

ESQ: You’ve established the Piano Island Festival.

WQY: That idea came from my desire to minimise travel and bring renowned teachers to a central location. It evolved into a gathering where I could meet my musical idols. One of the highlights of organising the festival was having Đng Thái Sn. He was the first Asian winner of the Chopin Competition and he agreed to attend my festival which was such an honour Interestingly, there’s a unique connection to Réunion Island.During the Vietnam War, the French exiled the Vietnamese king to Réunion Island to prevent a revolution. One of the king’s descendants, Dorothy, is a family friend I met in church. ĐngThái Sn’s mother, was the first piano teacher in Vietnam and was curious about this royal lineage. When Đng Thái Sn joined the festival, his mother, then 103 years old, wanted to explore their heritage. I mentioned how having luck is important but this series of events shows how luck and destiny can work together.

ESQ: How has public interest in classical music evolved in Singapore since the pandemic? 

WQY: Interest in classical music has grown a lot in Singapore lately. After COVID, in 2022, I played at Victoria Concert Hall. At that time, we could only fill 40 per cent of the seats; so about 200 people filled a 600+ seated space. However, two months ago, I had another concert here and it was a full house. The tickets were more expensive too so it’s not about the money but rather a sudden surge in interest. There’s a noticeable development in young people’s interest in music, not just classical but in general. When Taylor Swift played here, it was crazy. 

ESQ: How can the Piano Island Festival boost the local classical music scene?  

WQY: I hope to use it as a platform to introduce this art form to those who are unfamiliar with it. Southeast Asia holds many potential because of its growing population and increasing number of children learning instruments. Singapore is an ideal location for this. We have excellent instruments, a robust education system and a strong infrastructure. Ultimately, it comes down to the educational system to incorporate music and provide children with the opportunity to learn music in school.

ESQ: In 2020, there was a survey saying that artists were non-essential, what are your thoughts on that?  

WQY: I posted about it. I think it’s inaccurate because it’s based on opinions from people who don’t understand music or the arts. If you survey 300 office workers, you’ll get responses from an office worker’s perspective.When I left Singapore, the situation for musicians was much worse than it is now. My parents believed there was no future for musicians here; there was some truth to that. In France, I can play up to five concerts a week, even in the same city but in different venues. I couldn’t play in the Esplanade Concert Hall twice a month. Singapore is highly developed, which is why it couldn’t support local musicians at that time—they weren’t considered good enough. The expectations were too high. It’s like recruiting football players and expecting them to be the next Messi. You can’t escape the reality of our artistic careers. We must Travel. I believe the next developing markets are Indonesia and then Malaysia. Even if you’re based somewhere, like me, travelling every three days, you can’t avoid it.

ESQ: Do you believe adjustments are needed in Singapore for careers in the arts to receive proper recognition?

WQY: I don’t think Singapore needs to undergo any major changes. In fact, Singapore already possesses a thriving market for the arts.It may surprise you to learn that there is a significant population of affluent individuals residing here. This became apparent to me after I had the opportunity to mingle with this demographic. Once you become part of this network, recommendations start pouring in, and one connection leads to another. When I was younger, living in Singapore, my routine was ordinary: attending school, enjoying local cuisine like chicken rice and focusing on my studies. On the flip side, there are people residing in Sentosa. They have beachfront homes with yachts. BeforeI knew it, I found myself aboard a luxurious boat, surrounded by individuals discussing the local vibrant art scene. It was fascinating to discover wealthy individuals who appreciate the arts but they also invest in them.

ESQ: How do you stay creative? 

WQY: I disconnect from the Internet during the day. You have to belike Tarzan or Luke Skywalker to be creative. If you’re just another person going to the office, setting up your desk, typing, shutting down your computer, and going home, you’re living robotically. That stifles creativity. To be creative, break out of your routine. That’s what I’ve been doing. I never practice more than twice a day. If something isn’t working, I’d walk. I’d try different approaches—crossing my hands, playing upside down, or lying down. This keeps my practice fresh and prevents burnout. I also vary my teaching methods to keep my students engaged. If a student seems unmotivated, I might have them run a couple of laps to get their energy up. When you can’t do something, it’s rarely a physical issue. Your mind tells your body it can’t do it and you feel stuck. Learning an instrument helps build resilience. Music teaches you to solve problems and persevere. I’ve learned that I can solve problems in life and shouldn’t wait for solutions to come to me.

ESQ: Do you have a motto that guides you in life?

WQY: “Never beg for a seat if you can build your own table.” When you’re starting your career, facing rejection is inevitable. I’ve experienced it first-hand. Unlike instruments like the violin or guitar, where multiple players can perform simultaneously, the piano often allows for just one pianist at a time. With countless talented pianists out there, it’s tough to stand out. You have to create your opportunities—I formed my own music schools, organised piano festivals and built up my network of connections. This approach isn’t exclusive to music; it applies to every industry.

ESQ: It’s also trying to bounce back from failure, right? Because failure is essential for growth

WQY: Life would be simpler without it. But failures are a reminder of being human; they teach us it’s okay to stumble. I’ve noticed how people sometimes judge based on appearances. There have been instances where, despite being a featured performer with my face on the poster, I’ve been denied entry backstage simply because I wasn’t dressed in formal attire. It’s moments like these that reinforce the importance of self-confidence and staying true to oneself.

Sir Lewis Hamilton is suddenly on a hot streak. In early July, the seven-time Formula 1 champion won the British Grand Prix for the ninth time, setting a record for the most victories by a driver at a single circuit. It was just the latest milestone for the thirty-nine-year-old Hamilton, who has won more races and finished on the podium more times than any other Formula 1 driver in the history of the competition. But the win in England was his first in more than two years.

He followed it up by finishing on the podium in third at the Hungarian Grand Prix in Budapest a couple weeks later. And then a week after that, Hamilton, who was knighted a few years ago, notched another victory at the Belgian Grand Prix (after his teammate George Russell was disqualified post-race when his car was found to be underweight).

I got a chance to sit down with Hamilton at the Ritz-Carlton in Budapest the night before the Hungarian Grand Prix. The Ritz-Carlton is the official hotel partner for the Mercedes AMG Petronas Formula 1 team. And I was one of a group of invited guests and prize winners who travelled from Vienna to Budapest in a convoy of Mercedes vehicles for what the Ritz-Carlton called the “Road to Legendary Car Tour.” Hamilton stopped by to chat with the group and to offer a tasting of his non-alcoholic tequila brand, Almave, which he launched last year with the spirits company Casa Lumbre.

Hamilton is taking on new challenges at the track, too. This season is his last with the Mercedes team. He announced before the season that he would be leaving after twelve years and will be driving for Ferrari in 2025. Hamilton is also going Hollywood, co-producing the much-hyped movie F1, which is scheduled for release next year and stars Brad Pitt as a former driver returning to compete in Formula 1. (Check out the teaser trailer here.)

We talked about his battle to get back on top of the podium, how he stays in shape to compete with younger drivers, calling bullshit on the F1 screenplay, getting out on the track with Brad Pitt, collaborating with director Joseph Kosinski, and how he’ll know when to walk away from racing. Our conversation has been edited for length and clarity.

ESQUIRE: What do you get from doing something entrepreneurial, like launching Almave, which is different from everything else you’re involved in?

LEWIS HAMILTON: I think as a racing driver it’s really healthy to unplug and do other things and tap into other mediums. And when you get into the room to sit with a bunch of creatives—working with Casa Lumbre, for example, who have done who knows how many different spirits—they can explain to you the whole process. And then there’s things that perhaps you ask them that they’ve never had to think about before.

Your win at the British Grand Prix was your first time on the top of the podium since 2021. What was it like to finally get back to winning and to do it on your home turf in England?

Everyone was talking about it being this fairy tale. And it really, really was unexpected. Going into that weekend, I had no idea that that was going to be possible. And it had been such a long time. So many thoughts cross your mind. Some of them you start to potentially believe in, bit by bit. And finally, I had that day when I was able to excel, and we excelled as a team, and it just kind of shuts that all down. And it helps you rebuild again. So it was really great to be able to do it at home, in my home country, with my family around. The last race in Mercedes at Silverstone. It couldn’t have been more magical.

The past couple years have been kind of a grind for you after experiencing so much success for so long. What have you learned about yourself going through that?

It’s been mostly a battle of the mind. Keeping yourself sane, trying to pick up new tools. Ultimately, it always comes back to persistence and dedication. Hard work. It always does eventually pay off. I think I learned that life is really about how much pain you can experience and keep going, and how much you can suffer and keep moving forward, you know? And that’s life, right? It’s not how you fall; it’s how you get up. It’s how you continue to apply yourself every single day. It’s how you connect with people that you work with. I probably learned to be a better teammate in this period of time, because we’ve had more time to focus on communication.

There’s been a lot of buzz about F1, the upcoming Formula 1 movie starring Brad Pitt. I know you’re a producer. How did you get involved?

We were there from the beginning. There were a couple scripts out there. I had known Joe [Kosinski, the director] from when we talked about doing Top Gun: Maverick through Tom [Cruise]. Tom put me in touch with Joe, and there were discussions of being in the movie. And then we just stayed in touch. Then we all reconnected to talk about potentially doing a Formula 1 movie. And then we went through this whole process of working with a writer.

What was that like? Did the screenwriter interview you about the details of driving in Formula 1?

Ehren [Kruger, the screenwriter] basically did a ton of research, watched a lot of races, came to a bunch of races, and then went away and wrote up a script. But we would sit and talk about what racing is about. Then once he wrote the script, I would sit with him and call bullshit, basically, on the things that don’t seem real and are not what F1 is about and try to make sure that it’s as authentic as possible. Then at the same time, I started a production company, so I’m a producer with these guys. I’ve been able to be involved in all areas—so making sure the cast is diverse, making sure we’ve got a woman in a pit stop, which we never, ever had at the actual track. Hans Zimmer was someone I wanted to have doing the [music for the] movie, so we have Hans Zimmer. Joe has been amazing at including me in everything.

What types of things in the screenplay made you call bullshit?

It would just be racing scenarios. Technical jargon engineers would talk. But particularly racing scenarios and sequences between overtakes and pit stops and strategies and all those sorts of things. There may have been a crash that was like the car hits the wall and flips and lands on the wheels and keeps going, and that doesn’t happen in Formula 1.

When you were prepping for the movie, did you ever get out on the track with Brad Pitt to check out his driving? If so, how’d he do?

Yeah. We went to a track in LA. I took him out and sat in the passenger seat, and he drove. I used to be a driving coach when I was younger. It was a way of making some money part time whilst I was racing. So I’ve sat with God knows how many non-racing drivers. You can tell immediately the good ones, the bad ones. Straight away he was on it. You could tell he has it. He has it in his DNA. He’s just not been able to hone in on it like we have. But he’s got big potential.

So you’re confident he can give a realistic performance as a driver?

Yeah, but I think obviously it takes time. Ultimately, the story of a 50-odd-year-old jumping into the season and fighting against us youngsters—it’s just not the done thing. But then there’s discussing: How would you go about doing that? How much training would you have to do in order to really be able to come back and fight and react in the same way? Yeah, there’s a lot of detail that went into it.

How have you changed up your training routine over the years to stay fresh and competitive?

You definitely adapt always, and you learn you have to just watch your energy. Recovery is huge, a really big part of the process. It’s the whole 360 thing. It’s not just going to the gym. It’s how much you stretch, how much physio you end up doing, what you eat. And that’s constantly changing week by week. And obviously, depending on how much energy you have, the different time zones that you’re in.

You travel so much for your sport. Do you have rituals or secrets to make yourself comfortable when you arrive?

Not really. I listen to a lot of music. I have music set up in my room. I record music. Basically, I write and sing music. Different sorts of R&B. So I record music at night. Often in my evenings, I read. Try to meditate, mostly in the mornings. But I don’t always get to it. And then I’m focused on my sleep. Try not to slack on that ever. So there’s a cutoff time when I want to go to bed depending on what time I need to be up the first day.

In working with a partner like the Ritz-Carlton, you have a chance to do different kinds of events, like the Almave tasting we just had. Any favourite experiences?

We were just talking about this the other day. In Mexico City I went to visit a school and see the kids. I love when I work with partners that are doing practical stuff. I think that’s been a real shift. When I first joined Formula 1, we were working with partners, but less so in the human-connection space. In the last five or six years, working with partners like the Ritz-Carlton, it’s “What impact are you making? How do you give back?” When we go to a school, see youth, and see that they’re invested in children, for me, that brings real warmth to my heart. Especially as my foundation is all about getting youth who won’t have the opportunity, for example, to get into our sport, to get into STEM and channel through to a good career.

“I want to really max it out while I can and fully enjoy this sport I’ve done my whole life.”

Do you have a time frame for your career? You’re going to be starting a new process with a new team next year. Do you have a plan for how long you’d like to keep racing?

I definitely do. There are days I’m like, shoot, I don’t know how much longer I can go. There are days I’m like, shoot, I’d love a break, a proper break, because you don’t get a real big break in the season like other sports. You don’t finish until mid to late December, and then you’re back into training already in January, and that’s two times a day you’re training. There are another couple of hours of therapy that you’re doing during that time as well. So you’re not really getting a huge amount of downtime. And in February, you’re flat out running until December.

That sounds pretty gruelling.

But I do have mentally a plan of where I would like to extend to. I’ve just got to strategize and sequence things. I’m very much about sequencing, like looking at brands that I collaborate with, companies that I’m essentially starting, how I manage my time between all those, and how I’m able to dedicate myself to this job still. Is there a time when I’m not all in and I’m just not in love with it anymore? That’s the moment that hopefully never happens, in the sense that I’ve fallen out of love with it. But I will know when I need to stop.

You’ll feel it.

I want to make sure I really max it out while I can and fully enjoy this sport I’ve done my whole life. There are so many people that have finished their careers early, and I’ve spoken to many who’ve said they wish they could have just done one more year or two. And they’re like, “Stay in as long as you can!” But I don’t want to do it if I’m not good. So it’s like, how much do you want to train? When you’re twenty-two, it’s so easy to work out and be fit. There’s no recovery and you’ve got nothing else going on, no other stresses, no real responsibilities except for that one thing to go and kill. Now it’s: How can you stay sharp and be able to do all those things you have going on, and still be able to compete with those young guys in their twenties?

Does it give you particular pleasure to beat the young guys?

Not particularly. I’m super competitive naturally. I don’t care who it is. I just want to win.

No matter who it is you’re competing against.

Yeah. When I won the other day, I didn’t think anything about anybody else. I just thought about my team. I thought about people that were with me. People that have sacrificed their time away from their families. People who were giving that extra bit of time in their day when they could have left early to go home and see the kids, and they’ve given that extra time to build these parts that got us that result. That’s who I think about.

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Since its inception in a riverside warehouse on Jiak Kim Street, Zouk has been the epicentre of Singapore’s nightlife. Founded by Lincoln Cheng, the 35,000-square foot club thrived in an ever-evolving industry. Its success can be attributed to key figures like general manager Benny Heng, marketing manager Tracy Phillips, and later Sofie Chandra.

Also instrumental to Zouk’s legacy was Wayne Lee, who oversaw music and entertainment. Today, Lee is the general manager of HighHouse and NOVA, two dining concepts under OUE Restaurants. On a cloudy afternoon, we talk with Lee at HighHouse.

ESQUIRE: How is HighHouse different from Zouk?

WAYNE LEE: There’s the dining element, which is quite a big thing and that extends to the rooftop when we open up in July. The whole venue is OUE Sky: there’s HighHouse and NOVA—two concepts in one venue. What I used to deal with back at Zouk was more music- based. Here, there are four pillars, which are music, food, beverage and art.

We are into our fifth month and our dining has been quite stable; most of our meal services are filled out nicely; the menu direction is quite clear. We’ve been quite successful at stabilising that.

A lot more can be done about pushing out house and techno music that we believe in and getting it out there. Which is if you look at our programming, we have a couple of international DJs coming in. They are aligned to the kind of sounds that we’re doing and we want to do more collaborations with local music collectives. Building the local scene is quite important.

Back at Jiak Kim Street, the art was a little more intense, right? Lincoln [Cheng, founder of Zouk] had all these wild pieces like Keith Haring’s “Healing Hand” but when the club moved to Clarke Quay, there were space constraints so art wasn’t the main focus. But at HighHouse, my bosses are quite keen to get some relevant pieces on the ample wall space.

ESQ: Are you art savvy?

WL: I go to art fairs, I visit museums overseas. I wouldn’t say that I’m an art connoisseur but I do enjoy the medium.

ESQ: So, what’s the idea behind NOVA?

WL: We were inspired by festivals, right? Not just music festivals but festivals in general. That was a big inspiration for the space. Coachella, for example, some of the stages themselves are built around large installations. Burning Man [culminates in setting fire to a giant effigy]. Which explains the [10-metre] star structure at NOVA. We commissioned this artist Jun Ong from Penang—we saw his work at ART SG about two years ago. He’s great at installations, basically lighting installations.

ESQ: We heard the opening of NOVA was delayed.

WL: We are reworking the interior design to make it more futuristic. We were done but felt that it didn’t really measure up to the branding yet. I feel that once NOVA opens up, everything will fall into place; there’d be more opportunities for activities like yoga, your fitness stuff.

ESQ: You had started at the magazine, Juice.

WL: Back then the [Juice] office was at Scotts Road and that was one of the reasons why I wanted to work there. I was freelancing for them. Being quite keen to continue working for Juice, I took up a full-time position after I graduated.

I was very into electronic music, which helped. I was studying journalism in Melbourne and their rave culture was quite strong and that inspired me. So, when I returned to Singapore and there was quite an interesting underground electronic music scene between 2001 and 2004. This was the period where the government was more lax on people using venues and the neighbours weren’t complaining so much about the noise. I’d write about the scene. The process was so old school that I’d take pictures with this crappy DSLR and develop the photos.

ESQ: You had to shoot as well?

WL: Yeah, I took photos and wrote the reviews when I first started. I had to develop the film at Lucky Plaza. I remember that I had to pick five photos out of the 26.

That was what got me into Juice, the love of electronic music. Not so much the clubbing and partying—those were a byproduct. Juice started to change at that point because we needed the ad revenue, right? We were a free magazine and we needed to attract more advertisers. So we moved into the fashion space but we were not fashion people. The one thing that we could tap on was that the rave culture was connected to streetwear. We brought that element in. Me and the team were inspired by Japanese men’s magazines like Popeye. We had to go to Kinokuniya and buy it along with i-D and Dazed and Confused. That was quite a good time.

ESQ: How did you get to work at Zouk?

WL: It’s really a combination of circumstances. Because I worked at Juice, I was in close contact with Zouk’s marketing team and Lincoln as well. When they opened up a head of entertainment role, sort of a music director gig, in 2011, I was the first person they thought of and they approached me for it. I had been nine years in music publishing at the time, so I thought, since I’m already doing the theory portion of it, I might as well do the practical. That’s how I got to work for Zouk.

ESQ: What’s an average day for you at HighHouse?

WL: The office starts early. And meetings take up a large part of my afternoon all the way to about dinnertime. Then, from dinnertime onwards, I try to be on the ground [at HighHouse] just to make sure service is in order; to make sure our guests are settling in nicely. On certain nights—obviously, we do some late-night programming on Wednesday, Friday or Saturdays—I try to stay late. Again, just to see how things are going. Letting my presence be felt, I guess [laughs].

ESQ: This goes beyond your typical nine-to-five. Are the hours something that you took to easily?

WL: I came on board with OUE Restaurants in 2022 so I spent a good year-and-a-half being in a regular office working regular office hours; I enjoyed it. So now I’m back to those long, weird hours, but I’m used to it, because back at Zouk, it was the same thing, right? Daytime, I’d handle the corporate stuff and at night, I’d handle the nightlife.

ESQ: But is it easier now or harder?

WL: Harder. Back at Zouk, in my 30s, it was easier. It was also different because that environment had more high energy. We had a club that hosted 1,500, 2,000 people at any one time. That was intense. But now at HighHouse, the product is quite focused so we don’t have to bring in so many different demographics. We have a certain target audience and the music direction is clearer. The total capacity at HighHouse is about 400.

ESQ: Is social media important to what you do?

WL: I think it’s super important now, man. We’re always talking about Gen-Zs relating to TikTok and stuff. I was in Shanghai two months ago and... You know 小红书 [“Little Red Book” in Mandarin]? It’s big over there. I signed up for an account because I wanted to look for vintage shops in Shanghai but suddenly, I’m fed with other content like techwear, cycling...

So, yeah. social media is important. Especially when you’re running a business establishment, right? But, it’s important that you’re tapping onto the right platform. 小红 书started out as a place where people came to discover places of interest to go to but now it’s the equivalent of Instagram in China.

ESQ: China is ahead when it comes to connectivity.

WL: I’m really impressed by Shanghai. Everything is online for them. Lose your phone in China and you’re screwed.

ESQ: Do you think Singapore can get to that stage?

WL: It’s tough because we are not a super-huge city. We won’t get to where China is but what we have right now isn’t bad. Hopefully, Singapore will get there one day.

ESQ: What was your childhood like?

WL: It was good. I was quite blessed. Parents are mostly supportive. My dad was an engineer and my mom was a school English teacher. My dad was always urging me to take up mathematics, which I hated. And then I screwed up my A-Levels so badly that he gave up. But they gave me a very comfortable childhood, a good environment to grow up in.

ESQ: Are they still on your back about your life choices?

WL: My dad passed last year but he was ok with where I am today. My mom has, well, a lot to say, you know, because I’m still single so there’s that. If it happens, it happens, right?

ESQ: How was the pandemic for you?

WL: I don’t know about you guys but it was the worst. I mean, minus the pay cuts [at Zouk and the deaths] I think it was a reset button for a lot of people that I knew and a lot of efforts were taken to sustain the business.

ESQ: The pivots.

WL: Yeah. Back then, we put 50 bikes in the main room at Zouk and converted it into a spin cycle class. Capital [a whisky bar and cigar room] was turned into a restaurant. We even worked with Lazada to convert Phuture into a live-streaming studio... that lasted for a good three or four months before they decided to do their own studio. So that was challenging but it was nice. There was a sort of team spirit going on during the pivots. And I also enjoyed some normal hours, ending at 10:30pm instead of 4am, so that was quite nice.

ESQ: Was it worrying? Because, at the time, nobody knew when they could see the light at the end of the tunnel.

WL: It was frustrating because the first year when we pivoted, we thought by December 2020 it should be over, right? Everyone believed that myth that this was like SARS and the pandemic would soon be over. But it didn’t get better and then it got worse with the [COVID] variants popping up. We had to downsize the team quite a bit. It was painful to do but it had to be done.

That gave us a new thought process in how we run the business. If you look at Zouk, you see it is trying to expand overseas to Vegas, to Japan, by working towards F&B projects combined with nightlife concepts like fine dining with ultra lounges. Since COVID, operating solely on nightlife has shown its risks, hence diversification.

ESQ: What kind of manager are you?

WL: I think... I genuinely think I operate with empathy. I’m not the sort who goes like, “it’s my way or the highway”. I try to give the team a lot of room to run and grow in... but then again I am very blessed that to have quite an experienced team, both for the front and back of the house. Occasionally there will come a time to bring down the hammer, so I’ll do it. But as much as I can, I will try not to. I usually tell everyone that we are all adults, right?

ESQ: You also get to wear a suit and tie at HighHouse.

WL: [looks at his short-sleeved shirt and jeans] Yeah, sorry to let you down. [laughs]

ESQ: You don’t dress like that at Zouk.

WL: Because we operate a dining space, so out of respect for Steven, my manager, who is already in a blazer, I try to be in a suit and tie. It was a huge change from the Zouk days. Now I’m dressed up so that people can take me more seriously. [laughs]

ESQ: Any pet peeves?

WL: Sometimes people are not willing to change. It takes a while, of course. But, in our industry, change is the only constant; we always have to adapt and flip. When you are working with an older generation of managers and workers, it takes a while for them to be flexible. It’s frustrating but you still need to be patient to explain to them and get them on the same course.

ESQ: What’s your biggest fear?

WL: My biggest fear? That’s a really good one. So far all my work in Singapore has touched on culture, right? My fear is Singapore becoming stagnant culturally instead of moving forward. I’m talking about soft culture and things like that. Generally, things have been getting better. Singapore has always been a nation that’s built on finance, manufacturing and stuff like that. And obviously, what we call soft culture is super sub, right? Our generation did well but there are still purveyors pushing the scene in music, art, design, and stuff like that, and of course, aided by the government. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn’t but I’m hoping the next generation can continue.

It has to be a generational effort. This generation sets the path and the next gen will come in and take it forward. Let’s talk about culture, right? Obviously, there are your Edison Chens, Shawn Yues, John Mayers, the Pharrells even. They have gone from being musicians to extend themselves into fashion, designing watches even. They have done their part. So the next generation has to take over. Tyler, the Creator, he’ll be the next wave, right? He’s going to be the next Pharrell.

Going back to your earlier question about what I’m afraid of is that: I know there are a lot of very good content creators on TikToks who are in their 20s. But can we name that many? Can we find another, for example, Tracy Phillips? I feel that it’s tough to find someone of that calibre. Maybe it’s because the scene is quite diluted as everybody is doing it so it’s hard to stand out.

ESQ: You struck me as someone who prefers to be behind the scenes.

WL: You’re right. I don’t go to events, I stay at the back of the room. Eleven years of the club scene and my social battery is at its lowest. But now with the OUE Sky project, HighHouse and NOVA, I do have to be at the forefront of things to help push the brand.

ESQ: Along with Lincoln and Tracy, your name pops up as one of the few architects of the way the club scene is.

WL: Thank you for saying that. I appreciate it. It’s nice that in the course of what I’ve done, at least, my efforts have amounted to something.

ESQ: What do you like to do in your free time?

WL: I used to skateboard when I was younger but I’ve stopped. I’m trying to get back to the board again. I [laughs] can’t do the ollies and stuff. Actually, I cleared one but these days, my risk appetite is a lot less. So I just cruise along East Coast Park. It’s that or running.

ESQ: Do you fear getting old?

WL: Definitely. I think it is on everyone’s mind but—and this is going to sound corny—it kind of pushes you to do more each day because you know time is limited.

ESQ: Was this a recent realisation?

WL: I’m 43 going 44 and I think when you hit your 40s, you tend to think a lot more about the time that’s left and how much more you can achieve. Sometimes I can’t believe I’m middle aged, but it is what it is so you have to make the best of it. [points to his tattoo] “Memento mori”. Remember that you’ll die so you’ll appreciate life. [laughs] This all sounds dark.

ESQ: What’s that one book you always go back to?

WL: One of my favourite authors is Paul Auster, who died recently...

ESQ: I love Auster’s metafiction.

WL: Power, right? He passed away a few days ago. Very sad. Lung cancer. [thinks for a while]. [Haruki] Murakami is another. I’d usually return to Kafka by the Shore.

ESQ: Was that an introduction to the rest of Murakami’s work?

WL: That would be Norwegian Wood. Another book would be JD Salinger, [The] Catcher in the Rye. These are the few books that I’d reread if I had the time.

ESQ: Do you have enough time to do so though?

WL: The funny thing is that if the book is on a Kindle, you don’t read it as much as when it was a paperback. But I still buy books on Kindle due to space constraints, right? And my concentration on a Kindle is so limited. Ten pages and I put the device down. When it comes to the tactility of it, paperbacks can’t be beat.

ESQ: I usually borrow from the library so the due date forces me to finish it.

WL: That’s amazing. And that brings me to this one habit that I feel all of us should adopt, and that is, before sleeping, instead of going through Instagram, we should read. It’s tempting to pick up the phone and scroll through our social media but I’m trying to return to flipping the pages in books.

This interview was edited for length and clarity.

Photography: Jaya Khidir
Art Direction: Joan Tai
Photography Assistants: Nowo Kasturi and Ng Kai Ming

A nine-time Grammy winner and an American music institution, Sheryl Crow has sold more than 50 million albums worldwide and is a member of the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. With songs like “Love is a Good Thing,” “Redemption Day”, and “There Goes the Neighbourhood” in her arsenal, she has few peers when it comes to chronicling, as she describes, “the things that I see and the things that disturb my peace.” Her 12th studio album, Evolution, continues the tradition; she wrestles with AI anxieties, rails against Internet trolls and yearns for human connection.

I HAVE BEEN A MUSICIAN since I was old enough to reach the keys on a piano.

THERE WAS A MOMENT when I realised that what I was meant to be doing was not only reflecting but documenting the human experience.

IT’S VERY HARD for me to understand why I’ve had the colossal success I’ve had when I’m not the greatest singer, I’m not the greatest songwriter, I’m not the greatest bass player, guitar player, or producer.

EVERYTHING IS ABOUT the voice in my head that tells me that I’m not enough.

MY CAREER HAS BEEN largely propelled by my need to not just be liked but to be great. I have really come to terms with that. Cancer put that all into perspective—and several bad relationships.

I’VE LOVED SOME AMAZING PEOPLE, and I’ve loved some other people, too.

THE LAST FEW TIMES I’ve been back to LA, I felt melancholy. It’s the feeling of being young and having everything be exciting and full of possibility.

BUT I DON’T REALLY MISS IT. I’m most happy when I’m in this house with my boys in this town.

I’ve loved some amazing people, and I’ve loved some other people, too.

I’VE ALWAYS STRUGGLED with the weight of everything. I come by that genetically.

WHEN I FIRST STARTED TAKING OFF, I could not figure out how to hold all the energy coming at me. So I went and studied with this woman named Sharon Salzberg; she teaches mindfulness meditation.

I DO MINDFULNESS at least 30 minutes in the morning. Wherever I am. Two cups of coffee. Focus on breath.

IT’S A PRACTICE of letting everything go. It’s about finding compassion for yourself and your imperfections.

I GREW UP looking at magazines with Linda Ronstadt and Stevie Nicks, and they were mythical. I didn’t know that fame wasn’t going to feel like those black-and-white photos.

NOBODY, where money is concerned, is trustable.

THERE IS DIVINITY and there’s ego in everything. When you take your analytical “This is who I am and this is what I do”out of it and sit down with that weird, obtuse experience called life, sometimes something you couldn’t imagine surfaces.

I HAVE A FEW SONGS that I think, I don’t even know where that came from.

I TALK ABOUT mental issues because when I was really struggling, I didn’t have an example of somebody who said publicly, “I’m struggling, and this is what I did.” We need to make that normal.

Nobody, where money is concerned, is trustable.

THERE’S NOT A HANDBOOK for how to navigate, as a woman, a business that is predominantly run by men. Or for when you have a strong woman, how that challenges men and their feelings of importance.

I HAVE BEEN ADVISED on numerous occasions to please just tone it down.

I WISH I would shut my mouth but I can’t do that.

WITH CANCER, I had to learn how to say no and put myself first. A year of crying and being mad and not writing and resenting and having fear—and then ultimate joy and adopting a child. There was so much living that went into one year of my life, it seemed like I’d been slapped.

I WOULD NOT WISH cancer on anyone, but for me it was a tremendous—actually, a monumental—gift.

HAVING A DIAGNOSIS like that demands that you rebuild and decide what your life is going to look like and who is going to be in it—and who you are going to be in it.

YOU AND YOU ALONE are responsible for your art.

I LOOK AT WHAT TAYLOR SWIFT has done and think: she’s a powerhouse. The fact that she came up with solutions for how to not allow her music to be a moneymaker for other people when she should be owning it.

YOU WANT TO BE AIRY-FAIRY and making great music and having people love you. But what a distraction.

BY THE TIME my kids came into my life, I didn’t have things that I felt compelled to accomplish. That makes decision-making easy.

I HAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP with these two boys that I’m raising, and I have not manifested somebody coming in and changing that dynamic. That’s not to say I’m going to grow old by myself. I would like not to.

I TELL MY BOYS: “You have a college fund and a therapy fund. I hope you use the college fund, but please use the therapy fund.”

OUR KNEE-JERK NOW is to immediately criticise, vilify. Just observe and try to breathe love through your heart.

YOU’RE HERE for a nanosecond. Why be an asshole?

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In an age where stainless steel watches are mass-produced by stainless steel machines, independent watchhouse Lang & Heyne is a refreshing anomaly. Their secret? Crafting every watch by hand. German watchmaker Jens Schneider, under the leadership of CEO Alexander Gutierrez, is steadfast in their commitment to traditional craftsmanship and vintage design.

But what does it take to marry the old with the new; to balance heritage with innovation? We sit with Gutierrez and Schneider to delve into the heart of Lang & Heyne, the challenges of carving out an identity in a crowded market and the sheer artistry behind each timepiece.

ESQUIRE SINGAPORE: Who is Lange & Heyne for?

ALEXANDER GUTIERREZ: You are in our target group if you are someone who appreciates fine craftsmanship, whether it's handmade cars like Morgan or Pagani, or gourmet food and fine dining. Our customers are connoisseurs who are settled, not show-offs. They cherish what they own for themselves. If you enjoy admiring the movement of a watch and winding it yourself, you could be one of our targets.

ESQ: What have been some of the most significant challenges you’ve faced as CEO, and how have you overcome them?

ALEXANDER: The biggest challenge has been defining the DNA of Lang & Heyne, a relatively young brand at just 21 years old. Unlike established brands, we don't have a long history or celebrity endorsements to lean on. Instead, our focus is on the product itself, emphasising high-end craftsmanship and in-house production. Our Saxonian heritage plays a crucial role, and we honour it by naming our watches after Saxonian kings, rather than using reference numbers. Balancing traditional watchmaking with contemporary approaches, like using both handcrafting and modern machinery, has been key. Bringing all that together, and in the end, having a successful company, is the main challenge, I would say.

ESQ: Given the prevalence of contemporary watch designs, why has Lang & Heyne continued its commitment to vintage design elements?

ALEXANDER: We want to maintain our Saxonian roots and heritage, which is why we continue with vintage design elements. Our approach is more about elegance and tradition rather than flashy, complicated features. We focus on craftsmanship, especially the artistic work done by hand, which is central to our brand's identity. This combination of vintage design with a contemporary approach is what sets us apart. For example, the Sincere Platinum Jubilee Edition showcases this blend by incorporating modern materials like ceramic while retaining a classic aesthetic.

ESQ: What are the current trends in the luxury watch market, and how is Lang & Heyne positioning itself to stay ahead?

ALEXANDER: The current trend in the luxury watch market is a shift towards independent watchmakers and unique, niche products. Don’t get me wrong, I don't want to say big brands are not important anymore, but collectors and enthusiasts are increasingly seeking something different and special. At Lange & Heyne, we focus on artisan craftsmanship and customisation, allowing customers to personalise details like hands, dial colours, and materials. This personalised approach sets us apart from larger brands that often can't offer such bespoke options. By catering to these niche demands, Lange & Heyne is becoming a significant player in the independent sector.

The watchmaker

ESQ: Can you walk us through your creative process when designing a new watch?

JENS SCHNEIDER: A Lang & Heyne watch should be one you can use every day. We don't want to make watches that just sit in a cupboard. It should be easy to read the time and simple to wind. That's the starting point for me. Then I think about the watch's character. The next step is to gather information from my mind—things I've seen in historical watches and technical solutions—and combine them with my own ideas. You can't invent a completely new watch; it's about creating new combinations of known elements from the past with new technology or materials.

Next, I create a simple sketch of the gear train. It's just circles, but the dimensions of the circles determine the correct position of the hands on the dial. The final step is to design the watch in 3D on the computer. This isn't easy because you have to consider how all the parts fit together. If you change one part, you have to think about how it affects the others. This is the process we follow.

ESQ: How do you balance aesthetics with functionality when designing a new watch?

JENS: A watch that looks good but has no function isn't truly aesthetic. The function is what matters. For example, a very small balance wheel in the corner isn't appealing because it doesn't function well. It's all about the combination: the function should lead, and the aesthetics should serve the function

ESQ: How do you integrate modern technology with traditional watchmaking techniques?

JENS: You need to be knowledgeable about materials. For instance, using a diamond tool requires a combination of skilled craftsmanship and modern materials. We also use modern machinery. Today, I design using Computer Numerical Control (CNC) programs and machines to create the raw parts. For example, the hands of the Louis watch have a traditional shape, which we achieve through hand engraving after the raw material is cut with a laser.

ESQ: How do you two collaborate on a project from concept to completion?

JENS: We usually start with a brainstorming session, whether it's an idea from a customer, a special request, or an internal concept. We discuss the feasibility of the idea, considering both creative and practical aspects because a watchmaker has many ideas, but you cannot realise every idea. We have to consider the economic or capacity constraints, so we prioritise based on importance and resource availability.

ALEXANDER: We often work on custom projects, whether for a large order from a group like SHH or a single piece for an individual customer. The process involves detailed discussions about design, complications, and production logistics. For instance, when Sincere Haute Horlogerie requests a specific number of watches, we assess our ability to meet that volume and the specific requirements. Throughout the project, there's constant communication to refine the design and ensure it aligns with both our capabilities and the customer's expectations. For example, the success of previous models like the first and second Georg gave us confidence in the design's appeal and guided the project from concept to completion.

It takes a certain kind of person to work at LEGO. And as a Creative Director for LEGO Star Wars, Jens Kronvold Frederiksen has to remain rooted in the realm of play to conjure up inspired builds in the ever-growing LEGO universe.

Frederiksen originally started as a lithographer. Having been a scale modeller, he was contacted by LEGO for a freelance designer to make prototypes. That led to a permanent gig as LEGO's model designer in 1998 before moving on to a leadership role at the LEGO Star War department. With 20 years at LEGO, we speak with the Dane at the heels of the LEGO Star Wars 25th anniversary about what keeps his creative juices going, working with Disney and... lightsaber sound effects.

ESQUIRE SINGAPORE: Walk us through your creative process when starting a new project.

JENS KRONVOLD FREDERIKSEN: The first part of the design process is to set the assortment. After that, we create the first sketch models. The model design work is now done digitally on a computer. However, very early we also built the models physically with bricks. This is important as this is the only way to ensure the models look right and meet our high-quality standards.

A big part of the design process is also to test our models with kids or adults, depending on who they are intended for. Of course, we need the physical models for that.

When designing models, we are not thinking about the technical constraints, we are more focused on the creative challenges. Even though it can be difficult to find the right solution to a design challenge, fortunately, we have a fantastic and versatile building system with so many different shaped LEGO elements making us capable of finding solutions to most of these challenges!

ESQ: Do you have a favourite Star Wars character or scene?

JKF: There are so many epic moments in the Star Wars universe, so it is hard to pick just one scene as a favourite.

In my view, many of the exciting moments and scenes happen on the Death Stars, so they are probably my favourite locations. The Death Stars have also inspired us to create several LEGO Star Wars sets over the years.  

ESQ: What about a Star Wars character?

JKF: To pick my favourite Star Wars characters is equally challenging! However, Yoda, Darth Vader R2-D2 and C-3PO are some of my favourites.

Another lesser-known character I really like is the bounty hunter Cad Bane, first seen in the animated series The Clone Wars. I was totally blown away when he surprisingly later appeared in the live-action Series The Book of Boba Fett. He is cool.

ESQ: And a LEGO Star Wars set?

JKF: To pick my number one favourite LEGO Star Wars set is simply not possible! We have created so many different sets over the last 25 years. Sets for kids and for adults, for play or for display. Every time we design a new model, I think, this must be the best set ever.

ESQ: Do fan reactions and feedback influence your work on future LEGO sets?

JKF: Absolutely. We are always excited to see reviews and feedback when new models launch. We ask for feedback when we are designing a new version of a model that has existed before in LEGO form. In that context, it is great to know what people liked on the previous model, or what they would like to see changed or improved.

ESQ: Can you share any memorable experiences or stories from collaborating with other designers or with the Star Wars franchise team?

JKF: When designing LEGO Star Wars, we are collaborating with Disney.

Some of us from the LEGO Group and Disney have worked on the franchise since the beginning of 1999. Naturally, we have a very close relationship. Something we really appreciate.

Occasionally we visit each other’s offices. Personally, I really enjoy trips to Disney’s San Francisco offices, and one of the more memorable trips was in 2019 when I was there to make a film celebrating LEGO Star Wars 20th anniversary. I met film designer and artist Doug Chiang. He is the creator of so many fantastic designs in the Star Wars universe.

ESQ: What sort of media do you consume?

JKF: I cannot mention a specific media, in the design team, we all use many different media for inspiration.

However, the Star Wars content, the TV series and movies are, of course, our most important source of inspiration. I must admit that even though I have watched the movies hundreds of times, I still watch the movies occasionally at home just for fun.

ESQ: How have you seen LEGO design and technology evolve during your tenure?

JKF: When looking at some of the first LEGO Star Wars models back from the first years, it's very clear that a lot has happened over the years.

The way we design and build the models today is far more sophisticated, and we have so many new LEGO elements, making it capable of creating far more detailed and accurate models.

ESQ: How do you handle creative blocks or design challenges when they arise?

JKF: The answer is simple: teamwork. Even though usually one designer is assigned to a specific model, we work closely together as one team, so if a designer has problems or challenges designing the model, the other designers are there to help.

ESQ: What advice would you give to young aspiring LEGO designers looking to enter the field?

JKF: First of all, build LEGO models. By building sets after the building instructions, it is possible to learn a lot about different building techniques. That is great inspiration for making own creations!

ESQ: How do you balance staying true to the essence of the original Star Wars designs while adding your unique touch to the LEGO versions?

JKF: When designing LEGO Star Wars models, we, of course, do our best to make the models as close to the originals as possible, however sometimes we must make the design a little different from the original. For example: a completely white starship will never be completely white in LEGO form. It will consist mainly of white bricks but also of grey and sand-coloured elements. This is to ensure a great building experience. If the set is just a huge pile of white bricks, it would be hard to find the right pieces and too much time would be spent just searching for the right bricks.

ESQ: How is LEGO addressing sustainability in its design and production processes?

JKF: We’re working hard to make all our products from more sustainable materials—and we're making progress. Some of our LEGO bricks and elements are already made with recycled and renewable materials. For example, from this year our transparent elements, like lightsabers, and windscreens, include advanced recycled materials from artificial marble kitchen worktops.

ESQ: Are there any upcoming projects or themes you can share with us?

JKF: The short answer here is... no; I cannot tell you anything about future projects. All I can tell you is that we are super busy working on the next exciting range of LEGO Star Wars models. You will just have to wait and see!

ESQ: Lastly, when you're playing with a lightsaber, do you make the sound effects as you swing the weapon?

JKF: We don’t have a lot of lightsabers here in the office. However, occasionally you can hear a swoosh or blaster sound when we are flying our Starships around.

My childhood and youth were very isolating. I read a lot as a kid to escape depression and isolation. I became a lone ranger.

I came from a background of poverty. From a young age, you know—like seven or eight years old to my teens—I was actually fostered. I didn't get to see my parents for quite a long period. There's this sense of not belonging. Like you don't feel loved.

I have a strong attachment to the unfortunate and the displaced. So when I see the refugees in the Middle East, I actually feel for them because I came from the same background of displacement.

We’re doing a few things. We have a food kitchen cooking in Jabalia, north Gaza. We also periodically bring in 20 trucks carrying 20,000 food parcels into Rafah and Gaza.

It’s a complex operation, I tell you. Drivers are hesitant, you know. Workers inside Gaza are getting killed, some of whom I've worked closely with.

[My parents] taught me that we should spend more time with family: work less and spend more time with our kids.

But I'm not a good dad, a lousy dad. I'm missing quite a lot. So now, I try to catch time for my daughter. I'm flying off to visit her in Sydney for two weeks because it's her birthday. Every 10th of July, I’d fly over to spend time with her.

When I was in secondary school, I was the rebellious type (laughing). I tended to be the one in class who raised issues by speaking my mind. I always questioned why we should do this or that?

So, when my form teacher chose me to be the prefect, I said, "What? Are you sure or not?"

As an activist, you are more prone to humanity. Activism is about speaking up for the unfortunate, like the Palestinians, for the people in Gaza.

When we were around 20 or 21 years old, we had a classmate who was going through depression. There was a lot of mockery and stares at him. We helped him for a bit while he was in and out of jobs. Until one day, he got admitted to IMH (Institute of Mental Health) and when he was released, he hanged himself. That woke me up a lot.

If I had a superpower, I wish I could, with a snap of my fingers, stop the war in Gaza. It’s a war that needs to end soon. It’s been eight months, and people are dying every day.

We have collected about SGD3 million in donations. We gave out about a million dollars to an NGO delivering food into Gaza. So now we have two million left to push forward to the end of the year.

When I was in Lebanon, I often travelled in private vans because it was the cheapest mode of transport. Once, at midnight, I was detained by the Lebanese army. It was a frightening hour of interrogation that made me very uncomfortable.

If you want to embark on the humanitarian pathway, it’s good to start locally, or even in Batam, Indonesia, or Thailand, before you venture further.

My biggest break in humanitarian work is for the Palestinians in Gaza. I didn't anticipate it. I didn't prepare for it.

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I could’ve said no, I don’t want to come (to Cairo). I nearly said I don’t want to come because it’s difficult and troublesome. You’re not sure how things will turn out.

But I said, okay, the usual one or two months in the Middle East, then I’ll go back to Singapore, relax, and enjoy life. But this is my seventh month in Cairo, and I’m planning to stay till the end of the year.

I lost many friends over this issue [Israel-Palestine war]. A lot of them think it's only a Muslim problem.

We tend to follow the crowd in Singapore. I want to be remembered as someone who did things his way. I hope my legacy will inspire people to think outside the box, to not follow the crowd. If you think something is right, go for it.

I feel very proud when I raise my flag. I feel that this is what Singapore needs right now, for people to go against the grain, to do something worthy for the country.

The easiest part of providing humanitarian aid is donating money. You press a few buttons and you do your part for humanity. I’m not saying it's not important but, I think, doing that is easy. The hardest part is taking action. Coming to Cairo, going to workshops, attending activism courses. I think that’s difficult in Singapore, at least.

Often, that first step is difficult. But if you can extend your horizon or scope by joining an NGO, then you can get yourself started.

You can donate to Love Aid Singapore via Gilbert's preferred channel, PayNow: 87745281

It's hard to believe a decade has passed since Lauv recorded his first single, "The Other", one of the many songs of heartbreak that he, as a music industry veteran, has come to be known for. But even before that tune was birthed from a 2014 split, Lauv could harness turbulent waves attached to romantic relationships before actually being in them; this kid was penning break-up bangers back in school. His ability to reach in and excavate raw emotion landed him a publishing deal upon graduation, with tracks snapped up by the likes of Cheat Codes, Demi Lovato, and Charli XCX, no less.

"It took me time to get the confidence to put out my own song," Lauv said, "but 'The Other' was different. It was a really personal song about a break-up. That feeling of when you know in your gut it's not right, but you're also not sure how to explain it in your head. On paper, it should be good."

"The Other" would act as a soft launch while Lauv (aka Ari Staprans Leff) busily pedalled hit after hit for other artists. But soon he'd join their ranks with a slew of hits, most notably, the 2017 hit "I Like Me Better" became an international smash. Inspired by his move to New York City and a romance that swiftly ensued, the electropop number became a soundtrack for summer lovers (as it did too for Netflix rom-com, To All the Boys I've Loved Before). It stayed on the US Billboard Hot 100 for over six months and broke Lauv across Europe, Asia and Australia.

"I was wondering if anything was going to happen in my music career... if it was going to go anywhere. Then I finally released 'I Like Me Better' and within the first hour of refreshing the YouTube page, the views and comments went up like crazy. Life became extremely busy, really fun but also super stressful. It became a lot of touring, interviews, artwork, making content and more songs, and quickly turned into 'this is my full-time thing now."

That September, Lauv joined British superstar Ed Sheeran on his Divide Tour in Asia. First stop: the Singapore Indoor Stadium. "I remember the city was so pretty, so clean and so vast. I had chilli crab, chicken rice and stuff like that, but I do need to delve more into Singaporean food. Success in APAC swung Lauv back and forth east on the regular. Lauv even collaborated on tracks with Lay Zhang, BTS, and TWICE.

"I still have to process the weight of some of these collabs. They've been so much bigger than I could have imagined," he muses. "Another cool aspect of it all has been being able to play some awesome shows in Korea, and meet tonnes more K-pop artists."

Lauv was in Japan promoting the compilation, I Met You When I Was 18, when we first met and I asked him to describe what it felt like being in love. “It’s awful!” he said in 2018, based on that experience, the one which shaped his acclaimed debut. He maturely echoes that sentiment today.

“Looking back, I feel like my first relationship maybe wasn’t the healthiest. Not necessarily the best match, but it was such a high just knowing you had somebody and feeling like you had a partner to rely on, especially at that age when I was at the end of high school, so shy and feeling pretty lost. Falling in love for the first time was magical.

“Now I’m in a place where I’m so single and really afraid to let in love again. It’s something I’m working on because in my 20s I’ve had a lot of career success but I’ve also had a lot of personal issues.” He admits, “I feel like in a lot of ways I don’t really know myself, trust myself or love myself fully. I needed to stop running to other people to fix that or band-aid that, and instead to learn to love myself and the right partner will come along.”

Emphasis on “partner”. “I don’t really have any particular answers yet, other than it’s something that I’m exploring in my music and exploring in my mind, and I’m going to be exploring in my life,” Lauv said in a 2013 social media post.

He reveals about where he is with that exploration. “It’s been a really awesome and exciting journey but it’s also been so hard for me. Two months ago I stopped taking all of my medication for my mental health stuff because I was feeling like it was numbing me a little bit and I felt ready to address my deeper issues and work them out in therapy.

“This is my decade to be myself and live my life for me and not for any outside anything. There’s no turning back from where I’m at right now, so I have to embrace all the parts of myself and learn how to be comfortable in my own skin."

“Now I’m doing a tonne of therapy multiple times a week to work through all of the deeper stuff I have going on. I’ve also been so lucky to have so much support from people around me: friends, family, and even my team. They’re like ‘Don’t rush yourself in this process, don’t rush to label yourself, and you don’t need to do this for anyone else except for yourself.’"

“Potential”, his first song released a year after the social media post, marks the beginning of what he calls the most authentic chapter of both his career and life to date.

“This is something that’s happened to me too many times in the past year or two, where I’m looking at friendships and being like ‘Wait...maybe these feelings aren’t just friendship feelings and maybe they’re way deeper for me'. 'Potential’ is a song exploring that.”

The colourful accompanying promo to “Potential” shows Lauv and dancers in start-to-finish choreography for the first time, expressing those emotions to a rather attractive love interest.

“Shooting the music video was really fun and such a positive experience. Everybody on the shoot had such a loving energy that made me feel very safe to explore something on camera that I’ve never really explored on camera.”

In 2019, Lauv joined forces with out-and-proud Australian pop singer, Troye Sivan, on the number three single on the Singapore chart. Lauv explains how Troye has been a constant source of support in this life following their at-first professional encounter.

“We were actually just texting yesterday, I miss him as it’s been a minute since we’ve seen each other. Troye was amazing from the moment we met, during the peak of crazy anxious times for me. Working together was such an easy process and then doing promo, shooting content, making the video...he’s been somebody I’ll forever be grateful for, who took the time to talk me through stuff. A couple of times in the past few years, I’ve hit these points of extreme self-questioning and feeling very lost, and he’s always been there, and been somebody who has been very... non-judgmental, accepting, kind, and patient. He puts me at ease.”

At ease including that of speaking openly and honestly about his crushes. When asked how that feels, a noticeable weight appears lifted off his shoulders.

“I’m at the point where once I started admitting it to myself, I found myself being so inspired and writing all these songs about different guys in my life or fantasising about a potential lover. It felt so beautiful and natural to me. I do feel like in terms of life experience I have so much more to unpack and experience. I’ve gone through the phase of allowing myself to talk about this and admit these feelings, dream and write about them, and now it’s like ‘Let’s go Ari,’ and I’m like, ‘ahhh!’”

Ari is his birth name. Ari Leff. Lauv’s stage name was coined from his Leo zodiac sign and his mother’s Latvian heritage (“Lauva” is Latvian for “Lion”). Lauv turns 30 on 8 August; a milestone birthday, which he describes as an opportunity to start fresh, not start over.

“This is my decade to be myself and live my life for me and not for any outside anything. There’s no turning back from where I’m at right now, so I have to embrace all the parts of myself and learn how to be comfortable in my own skin. I’m also trying not to put too much emphasis on only career since a lot of my 20s were so career-focused, however, at past points in my life when I’ve felt most at peace with myself, I’ve made music that I really love.

“Now I want to dig back into family, friendships, and living just as ‘Ari’. Not worrying as much about ‘Lauv’ and letting that follow suit however it does.”

With that in mind, what are his plans for the big 3-0?

“I’m not going to have a huge party. I’m going to do something intimate with people that I care about, who have been there for me and I want to be there for, just coming together and having a nice wholesome celebration together.”

Of course, Lauv’s not Lauv with a pinch of excess thought.

“I am nervous though,” he finally admits, “It’s wild turning 30!”

Photography, Digital Imaging and Retouching: Jayden Tan
Styling: Asri Jasman
Grooming: Emma Wendorff
Photography Assistant: Brian Neo

All right, it’s been done to death to deem a celebrity—who also happens to quite literally be tall, dark and handsome—as down to earth. The rationale is perfectly understandable. You look a certain way, make a living in a world that mostly operates like a separate stratosphere... and of course maintaining an objective grip on reality automatically becomes a feat.

That’s not to discount Taylor Zakhar Perez. It’s not so much the absence of airs about the actor but the sense that, vocation aside, he could make a sincerely valuable friend in your life. I’m coining it Cool Dude Energy: positive yet pragmatic.

The 32-year-old comes across as a tad younger than his actual age with a somewhat unjaded disposition for someone who has been in this trade since his teens. Yet between affable rambles, a time-honed maturity slips through every so often. Living nearly half his life in Los Angeles meant some trial and error finding the balance of confidence sans ego, or preserving self-belief without giving in to an industry-induced god complex.

“I’ve always taken the slow and steady, consistent approach. That’s just how I grew up, where everything’s regime and you build a solid foundation before you build the house,” he shares casually, “I think a lot of people like building the house first because it’s pretty and something to show for, but when it comes time to get that inspection, when you really have to dig deep, there is no foundation.”

Setting the scene

Born in Chicago and raised in Indiana as the sixth of eight children, the Midwesterner identified more as an older child than a younger or middle growing up. The household dynamic had Zakhar Perez effectively functioning as the eldest of the youngest segment. Given his career trajectory, catching up with his older siblings now occasionally lends to him doling out business advice too.

He speaks fondly of his late sister Kristy, who the family lost to colorectal cancer. Though 12 years apart, their bond and her influence on his life are evident through his heartening dedication on social media. Of Kristy’s many wise counsels that he adopts is to just keep going; as restarting anything after stopping is usually much harder.

This guidance was further substantiated by his stint as a varsity swimmer. Funnily enough, throughout the decade-long tenure, he was never truly fond of swimming (he still surfs though). “It was the discipline of it and the camaraderie that I loved,” he admits, “I was team captain for two years in a row and I liked being a leader, and that sense of community that I might not have had if I stopped.”

Training to never lose the groundwork created for himself eventually shaped his acting mindset as well. One he abided by even later in life waiting tables for actors on the other side of the coin; seemingly powered by sheer conviction. Whose certainty that they were going to succeed, despite having never seen them on any screen, was highly persuasive.

“It was interesting that I thought they were going to make it because they thought they were going to make it,” he recalls, “but I kept to the educational [route] because I knew from my experience as an athlete that that’s what you’re going to have to do. It’s practice after practice. Competitions. Win, loss, year after year; and that’s how I equate it. Acting is a sport.”

It only took finishing university to pursue his dreams. When early admissions to some of the best bio-chem programmes (the initial ambition was to be a dermatologist) came with the caveat of a swim scholarship, Zakhar Perez turned it down to attend UCLA as part of the appease-the-parents deal.

The evolution from theatre to commercials, however, was a steep learning curve. “It was cool to see yourself on TV in the beginning, but then you discover that there’s a technique behind it, which you have to invest in for it to convey on screen,” says the man who was not spared the trope of a small towner meets big city.

“Having acting coaches tell you like it is, but you don’t want to believe it because ‘Oh man I was the best in my high school so I’m going to be the best here’ and realising oh my gosh I’ve so much work to do.”

Defining the character

Cutting his teeth as an assistant for five years under his uncle, an art department director and set designer for commercials and advertising (“I was basically a glorified mover the first week”). The stint was another invaluable masterclass. It entailed being one of the first people involved in the process by sourcing props and prepping sets, to being among the last ones to leave after breaking down the sets. A far cry from simply showing up to shoot your scenes.

So it was impressive then, to witness actors who exemplified inspiring conduct. “They didn’t bring any of their insecurities on set, handled everybody from photographer to personal assistants so professionally, never made anyone feel less than but made everyone feel like they were part of this magic that was happening,” he enthuses, naming Hugh Jackman, Jennifer Anniston and Cate Blanchett for laudable behaviour he now emulates.

“I was like, Wow! You are an incredible storyteller and you also have an incredible presence about you that makes people want to work with you. As opposed to say, 70 per cent who were not the ideal talent. It makes you have compassion for your below-the-line creatives. So I’m very grateful because you can’t pay to have that experience but I was paid to have that experience.”

Other names in the game whose performances stay in his head rent-free include Michael Fassbender, Tom Hiddleston thanks to a recent watching of The Night Manager, and James McAvoy; whom the actor had the pleasure of acquainting.

“He was so sweet. Sometimes you think people are unapproachable and you can’t ask them what you want to, but he was so open and wonderful about it,” eyes gleaming as he recounts, “The Brits have a way of working in the details and these guys are such dynamic actors. The specificity, the continuity... it’s impeccable and just lights my fuse.”

As far as he’s concerned, there was no Plan B going into this gig all those years ago. “I remember one Christmas where my [other] uncle kept asking me what my backup plan was, and I said I don’t have one. And he went ‘Ah! Nephew! You should really have one, man. I’ve been out there; I know what it’s like. It’s hard to make it.’”

Constantly advocating his aspirations was not easy but like a movie cliché, Zakhar Perez insisted he was all in and nothing was gonna stop him. The memory is special because said uncle subsequently apologised, acknowledging that he was projecting his own worries and failures out of fear that his nephew might meet a similar outcome.

“And that was before any sort of success came my way,” he reveals, “So I thanked him for being so transparent with me, and as soon as I got rid of that ‘I’ll show you’ mentality, the world opened up for me.”

Hitting the stage

Currently recognised off Netflix and Amazon Prime, Zakhar Perez counts himself lucky for his divvy of co-stars. The natural rapport he carries with Joey King and Nicholas Galitzine, as well as his admiration of Uma Thurman, is clearly visible in interviews.

He appreciates that on top of their obvious flair, they’re equally proficient at embracing a childlike element of play at the moment. It ties to his bias towards rehearsals. It’s the portion many actors dislike due to repetition getting stale, but his theatre background thoroughly relishes it.

“That’s the time you get to improv, and you get to explore where these characters are coming from,” he explains. “It’s freedom because you’re not going to get told you’re wrong. The worst you’d be told is that it’s inaccurate given the circumstances. It just strengthens everything before you get on set to take that audience on a journey.”

While he would certainly not mind returning to theatre should the stars align for it, Zakhar Perez thrives with the medium he’s in. He’s obsessed with camera work even though he feels unqualified. “I only know my way around maybe a point and shoot, but I love being behind the DP and seeing their vision lining up a shot, because nine times out of 10, it’s totally different from how I’m reading it.”

Together with writing, he regards these as skillsets he’ll probably never fully acquire, but leaning into them better informs his dexterity. For now, he’s gleaning plenty from Oscar-winning producers on a handful of projects. Besides lighting and treatment, one key lesson is getting over watching his own performances. Letting go of professional perfectionism to objectively view it according to plot development.

Above the technicalities, he finds it a blessing that these project partners are adept at hiding the medicine in the sugar. This is an aspect Zakhar Perez deeply resonates with, like the genres he enjoyed watching in adolescence. Sure, he delighted in buddy-style comedies, SNL (Fred Armisen’s Regine absolutely kills him) and superhero action, but the original X-Men films spoke to him personally.

“It really had a message on its mind and makes you rethink [your perspective],” he muses, circling back to the topic, “These projects have completely shifted my entire mindset on the industry. I think people tend to forget that acting is just a sub-category of the entertainment industry at large. It’s a business.”

Sharing the spotlight

There are things he wished he knew when he started out. Expertise that was never actually taught in school (personal finance!) which could genuinely hold back an individual without it. It is why helping the future is something that has always interested him.

“There are two paths, right? You can be an egotistical maniac, or you can reach back and lift somebody up, and that person reaches back and lifts the next person up,” he tells of his philosophy which he practises towards greener actors. Whether new cast or juniors met in passing, there’s no hesitation to take their calls.

“It’s not like I’m trying to be everybody’s mentor but nobody ever did that for me. I know that there are so many questions you’re afraid to ask on your first day and honestly nobody can put you at ease on how it’s going to go than a fellow actor.”

This harkens back to a programme he did many moons ago. The brief was to add a socially impactful cause to your life that you thought you had no room for, as a means to hold yourself accountable since it’s easy to be engulfed in the daily grind. Zakhar Perez decided to boost creativity in youth, in light of the US defunding of many art-related programmes. It seemed a fitting choice.

“Art was my favourite class as a kid. Being able to create solo but also collaborate with friends and have a teacher guiding me in the right direction... that was such a formative time in my life. And I saw what was lost through the years of getting older and having papers to write and deadlines to hit.”

“So I had a tent at this farmers market by the LA Zoo, brought tons of arts and crafts and every week kids would come,” he tells with a huge grin. “A friend and I would ask what they’d want to make that day and we’d be cutting up snowflakes, painting, using markers.”

“Their parents would be shopping, then come back to pick them up... It almost felt like a daycare sometimes,” he laughs, “But you know what? If the kids are activated and excited about this, then that’s all that matters. You make time for things in your life that you find meaningful.”

Who knows? Maybe, just maybe, out of these little seedlings sprouted a few for whom these very sessions lay creative soil; forming a fresh base for an upcoming flourish that will one day come around to do the same.

Photography: Lenne Chai
Fashion Direction: Asri Jasman
Art Direction: Joan Tai
Styling: Marc Eram
Producer: Guoran Yu at APEX COMMUNICATIONS
Executive Producer/Casting: Even Yu at APEX COMMUNICATIONS
Production Design: Kelly Framel
Grooming: Rachel Burney
Digitech: Dante Velasquez Jr.
Photography Assistants: Tatiana Tate and Carly Hough
Styling Assistant: Mikey Vargas
Production Assistant: Sky Xiang